[Amelia]

Ah, kissing! Who doesn't love to kiss? The feel of someone else's lips on your mouth, your neck, your ear… A kiss can be dirty, interrogative, or chaste; it can be placed anywhere on your body; it can last for less than a second or several hundred seconds. Kissing is one of the most universal acts of love—almost everyone does it at some point. But what kinds of kisses do men like best? Do they want a sloppy wet one? A quick peck? We poled our male acquaintances and found four types of kisses they like. Here's how to kiss your man.

1. The lip-sucking kiss. This kind of kiss usually occurs during a make-out and it involves gently tugging your partners upper or lower lip. Why do men love it?

"Let's be honest, the lip-sucking kiss is the best. It's the official kiss of ramping-things-up, and simply hints at many more talents and adventures to come." – Jody, 29, Radio Producer

"I actually pair slight lip sucking with very light, barely-touching lip licking. I'm not so much partial to having my own lips licked and sucked, but I'm a big fan of doing it to my girlfriend. It provokes the best kinds of reactions." John, 28, Writer

2. The mid-sex kiss. The mid-sex kiss is just what it sounds like—you're making love and kissing at the same time. Why do men love it?

"Aside from the obvious reason—i.e. you have to be having sex for this kiss to work—it's hot because you're essentially combining one of the most classically romantic acts with one of the dirtiest—if you're doing it right, that is." – Scott, 30, Bartender


3. The simple kiss. The simple kiss is nothing fancy, just a quick smooch on the lips, the cheek, anywhere.

"I love when my wife kisses me anytime of day, nothing sloppy, just a simple kiss. Every time we kiss I smell her lotion and shampoo and it makes me smile." – Andrew, 31, Flight Paramedic

4. The tongue kiss. The tongue kiss is the classic French kiss—slipping your tongue inside the other person's mouth. Why do men love it?

"A good French kiss is as intimate as sex. The eyes-closed, you-tilt-head-this-way-I'll-tilt-mine-this-way, bodies-pressed-together, jaws-stretching, tongue-darting, hands-roving, butt-clenched back-and-forth is one of life's sweetest, simplest, most honest pleasures. There's magic in a good kiss. There's an articulation and intuition-by-feel in a passionate kiss that no amount of talking or sex can replicate. " – Tom, 31, Comedian

[Lovely]

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The mid-sex kiss.

This one is the best Its good to know men like it too

[Butterfly]

interesting

[Mary]

thanx for sharing! and by the way The lip-sucking kiss is kewl! only reading makes me dreaming...

[Lovely]

From the kiss of respect to platonic kiss to a passionate kiss like you see in the movies, bringing your lips in contact with someone else's is a sign of affection that most people enjoy. But since there are many kinds of kisses to reflect the many levels of affection you can have for someone, it can be nerve-wracking! Don't worry, though--this article will go over several kinds of kisses, as well as when, and how, to give them.

Here are some steps:

1. Get your lips in proper kissing order. The most kissable lips are smooth and sweet, not dry, chapped and tense. The guidelines in How to Get Kissable Lips will help both men and women make their lips look more attractive and inviting. Here are the basics:

# Exfoliate your lips with sugar to make them soft. You never want your lips hard.
# Moisturize your lips to keep them soft.
# Relax your lips by parting them ever so slightly.

2. Look inviting and approachable. You might not realize it when you send a "leave me alone" message, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross your arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or does this person seem uncomfortable?

3. Break the "touch barrier." Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read How to Touch a Girl for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you're hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond.

* Please note that the touch barrier is culture dependent. In certain cultures, e.g. Islamic, breaking the touch barrier is a big taboo that can land you in serious trouble. Be very careful.

4. Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person's lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don't have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they've read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed.

5. Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact.

[Lovely]

The French Kiss



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As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
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Slowly open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth until the tip of your tongue meets the tip of theirs. Let your tongues brush against each other briefly and gently and then pull it away, back into your own mouth.
3
Close your mouth a little (not all the way) and open it again to start another kiss. This time you can push your tongue a little further into your partner's mouth, so that more of it brushes against theirs.
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For a passionate kiss: Put your hand(s) on your partner's face, neck, or hair and hold them close as your tongues meet. Gently suck or nibble on their lips here and there. Breathe deeply. Kiss the person like you just can't get enough of them, and like you might never get to kiss them again.
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Finish off a French kiss with a little lip locking (as described in the previous section) or continue kissing

[Romain]

once you know its ok with her, move in slow. make sure she moves in at least a little bit. find something to do with your hands like put one arm around her or put one hand on her cheeck... if you want to be real daring touch her chin lightly and guide her gently toward you. id stick with something simple for starters tho. different girls like different things, youll figure out pretty quickly what she likes. give her a simple soft peck with your eyes closed, then depending on her reaction you can stop there or keep doing it or maybe do it a little harder if you end up getting really into it make sure you remember to breathe and let her breathe too!

[Bella]

jenna, on 09 September 2010 - 05:10 AM, said:

im 15 and i havent kissed yet, i even havent got a bf...is there something wrong with me?

relax! there's nothing wrong with you. i also had my first kiss and my first bf at 15. guess you just haven't met the right guy to have ur first kiss with

[Mary]

oh sure its better to practise more! but you also can use this video tutorial on The Art Of Kissing: How To French Kiss Step By Step !

enjoy your French kisses!

[Siskin]

Come closer, look into her deep eyes, breathe in her fragrance, caress her hair with your right hand and kiss her upper lip, and touch her tongue with the tip of your tongue:)

[Siskin]

actually you gotta kiss the girl to get her head in the clouds and she will never forget you!

[Mary]

jenna dont worry everything is good in its season! you can learn how to kiss with this "kissing" video tutorial:

[Butterfly]

Oh, kissing isn't difficult. Just relax and let your feelings help you. It will happen by itself)))

[Veronica]

kissing is such a pleasant process.. Good tips, girls