[Veronica]

I want children VERY MUCH. Sometimes i think it has become an obsession. I plan it, count my days, pursuade husband to give up bad habits, etc. But nothing works... One of the most horrible things is that 'sex has become a job' as Khloe Kardashian said in a recent interview. It is no longer spontaneous or fun, it's always right in time, and has actually become plain. Even roleplaying and sexy lingerie don't help. Sometimes i feel like i don't want to have sex but i have to because maybe this is that lucky day.



I'm not complaining here (although it really feels like i'm doing that). I'm asking for advice on how to make our sex life more... inspiring. Maybe there is someone who's had such a problem.

[Lilu]

I think it happens in every single relationship, sooner or later. You know everything about your partner, you know the quickest way to satisfy him and know the way he would react on certain things you do in bed. In my personal case this "plain periods" are cyclical. During the decline it just happens automatically. I would suggest to take a time out. Continence for couple weeks or so would make a great difference.