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He commented:
"Wife is a management post, she doesn’t want the responsibility of that. So there are many women who want the relationship but they don’t want to be the wife. They want the economic support and the emotional support, but without the responsibilities, so they will easily — and often and eagerly — facilitate an outside relationship with a married man.”
Dr Semaj said this theory works with the majority of single women regardless their age and place of living:
"I have told young men who play hide and seek in relationships that the fact that they are married actually makes them even more attractive to other women. You don’t have to tell them that you are single to get access to them. The idea of a married man is attractive to them, because they want the relationship, they want the involvement, but without the responsibility of being a wife.”
The same conclusion was supported by the study carried in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology:
"A commonly heard complaint among women is that all the good men are taken, but is it possible that this perception is really based on the fact that taken men are perceived as good.The attached man has demonstrated his ability to commit and in some ways his qualities have already been pre-screened by another woman.”
So it appears that those men who are married or in stable relationship automatically becomes attractive to other women because of the fact that he is attractive enough to be dated with or married.
A reader commented on this study:
"Given my own anecdotal evidence–more than a few women who wouldn’t give me the proverbial time of day when I was unattached suddenly found me considerably more worthy once I was involved with someone–none of this surprises me in the least. I suppose its a given that if one woman deems you as worthy partner/spouse material, you’re “in” (a wedding band becomes something of a halo?), but I, too, wonder if something else is going on.”
